I could probably accept it more easily if we could talk about why, but you won't even entertain it. Which is your prerogative, I guess, but it's not very much in the spirit of working things out together of you. 'Working things out together' has gotten exactly as far as never talk about anything at all unless it's... I don't know, is flavours of bubblegum too personal and provocative? Is sports too competitive and aggressive a topic?