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[personal profile] riseunparalleled 2023-08-13 10:16 pm (UTC)(link)
From what he's told me, Alchemy requires sacrifice. What I know about Alchemy on his world is through him, so there could be much I don't know, but I think he truly believes that.
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[personal profile] riseunparalleled 2023-08-13 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Mm. So part of 'containment' depends on who will listen to him.
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[personal profile] riseunparalleled 2023-08-17 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
Perhaps that's something his next warden will do. I know you said you care more about preventing this from happening again, and I understand, but I also know that you're aware how these things can get people... upset. Which gets in the way of prevention, putting aside any personal, ah, drama.
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[personal profile] riseunparalleled 2023-08-17 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
People can be quite relaxed about the dining hall being blown up.
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[personal profile] riseunparalleled 2023-08-17 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
I think it’s complicated. The dining hall blowing up is immediately harmful. People died or were injured and the consequences of that radiate out. The literal harm, the pain from seeing those we care about hurt, consequences and what people think of those consequences…

But despite that, it’s a constrained event that people can point to. There are solid answers, whether you like them or not.

A warden, or multiple wardens, tracking an inmate’s movement or communications is more complicated. People have all sorts of reasons to object, in principle. Personally, I don’t think it would be particularly effective and thus not worth the trade off of trust.

‘Envy blew up the dining hall’ and ‘wardens will invade people’s privacy’ are both simple. They’re not correct, or I think they’re lacking too much to be correct, but there’s a difference in weight.
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[personal profile] riseunparalleled 2023-08-18 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
Is it really that simple? Here?

[It's a gentle question.]

You said you want to prevent it from happening again, not making sure Envy - or those who helped him - learns from it. But I don't believe thinking of those as two separate things is the most effective way forward. From everything I've seen, you're an intelligent woman. You know the Barge is different from where you were before.
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[personal profile] riseunparalleled 2023-08-18 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
[He laughs.]

Please, for your own sake, I hope that isn't how you usually phrase it. [He can think of a number of people who would take offense to word choice over meaning.] Personally, I would say I've run into inmates who land all over the place when it comes to how well served they are by delicate handling.

As a group... hmm, I suppose I'm not sure who you mean by 'you guys'.
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[personal profile] riseunparalleled 2023-08-18 02:19 am (UTC)(link)
Ah, I'm afraid I don't know what that means. Wardens who believe that all that's needed for graduation is for the inmate to be treated well? Or who hope, if not believe? [Trying to work from context.]

I believe that you're here, as we're all here, because you can help people. [He believes that everyone has that capacity, but he's not trying to get into philosophy.] Your approach is your approach, and I don't think it's a bad one. I admire your dedication, and how you care for the people here. It makes me feel quite cynical.
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[personal profile] riseunparalleled 2023-08-18 05:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I did say that one of the reasons I’m against monitoring people is that I don’t think it will work. I’m not sure the compromises I make are those of an optimist.

I try to people with kindness and respect, because I think they deserve it. That has nothing to do with my opinion on human nature.
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[personal profile] riseunparalleled 2023-08-18 06:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Not for me.

I understand. But for the record, I never thought that was why. I think it's because you want to protect people.
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[personal profile] riseunparalleled 2023-08-18 06:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Not at all. [He laughs a little.] I do feel cynical in comparison to pure optimists, but not to that extent. If that's what cynics believe.

I think human nature is not automatically free from cruelty, even if the someone has been treated well, and that it's not hard to develop a talent for justifying things that you believe are wrong.

But even if I did think worse of people... Yes, I would still believe that they deserve kindness and respect.
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[personal profile] riseunparalleled 2023-08-18 07:08 pm (UTC)(link)
[He shrugs.] You might find that you don't disagree with the reasons people who get up in arms about it, or that they don't disagree with your reasons, if you start with phrasing that suggests you're more willing to agree.

I'm not claiming that's fair, and I wouldn't suggest it to everyone. But I've gotten the impression you would rather focus on getting the work done instead of getting into unnecessary arguments. If we're speaking of nature, I think many tend to get defensive when they think they're being insulted. Even if that means taking a position they might not otherwise.
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[personal profile] riseunparalleled 2023-08-18 11:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah. [He hadn't assumed otherwise, but her post would be proof if he needed it.]

But, perhaps, if talking to someone else who doesn't think surveillance isn't the way to go, just stop at 'I think it's important to keep an eye on someone who's just murdered someone'. A simple statement of fact, and you can agree or disagree if someone else puts forth an idea about what to do instead. If they make any personal comment, it's on them.

If you comment on their character, then they can take it as an excuse not to listen.

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